There’s a whole lot of unusual concepts floating spherical on the market about folks with vulvas doin’ the soiled with nary a cock in sight. And but, despite the standard mainstream, hetero-obsessed, phallus-worshiping, penetration-centric mythologies, intercourse between girls—or these with vulvas—is usually a profoundly gratifying expertise.
In the event you’re seeking to discover deeper erotic pleasure along with your lover/associate/consort of alternative (and there’s no penis within the equation), take into account making an attempt out the next 7 positions for maximal bliss:
1. 69
It is a tried and true oral intercourse place, a transfer with actual legacy, child. One associate lies on high of the opposite in an opposite-facing path in order that each of your mouths land smack between one another’s thighs. 69ing permits each companions to provide and obtain oral clitoral stimulation concurrently—delish. And if feeling the burden of somebody’s physique on yours is an excessive amount of for any cause, you may lay in your sides for a modified “mendacity 69” place. This variation additionally occurs to unencumber your fingers for exploring extra of your associate’s erogenous zones.
2. Queening
AKA face-sitting, this one’s nice as a result of it gives direct clitoral stimulation and the receiving associate can give attention to the pleasure of, properly, receiving—whereas additionally having fun with the flexibility to manage the pace, rhythm, and movement. The giving associate lies on her again whereas the opposite squats/sits on her face (with out overlaying her nostril), and holds onto one thing for stability, driving to their coronary heart’s content material. Vital: all the time make consent and communication a frontline observe, particularly the place somebody’s face and respiration are involved. This place additionally works properly with roleplay, or BDSM energy play dynamics like demanding dominatrix or queen and peasant, when you dare. There may be boundless pleasure obtainable in fantasies, be they taboo or not…when you open your self to them.
3. Scissoring
Scissoring AKA “tribbing” entails two folks rubbing their vulvas along with interlocked legs in a so-imagined scissor-like place. One associate lies on their facet with their legs unfold, one leg out, and one leg up with the knee bent, whereas the opposite joins in with their legs unfold too, maneuvering their butt and genitals as shut as doable to their associate’s.Whereas in concept, scissoring is scorching and attractive, it may also be downright hilarious making an attempt to get the place proper, so go in with a humorousness. That stated, while you get it proper, gliding your personal moist clit alongside your associate’s moist clit may be, um, a mind-altering expertise to say the least.
4. Missionary
Whereas it’s true that the missionary place has some lasting heteronormative associations, the very fact is, it’s for everybody, and it’s nonetheless in style for a cause. The receiving associate lies on their again whereas the opposite lies between their legs. One or each companions may use their fingers for mutual clitoral stimulation, or the associate on high may put on a strap-on harness and dildo for delectable penetrative pleasure if everybody’s into it. Including a g-spot vibe to the combo can also be all the time a stellar possibility. For a twist on conventional missionary, discover “double-missionary” with the assistance of a double-sided dildo—lean ahead or again, gaze into one another’s eyes or not, and bask.
5. Spooning
In the event you’re the cuddling kind, this one’s for you. Lie down in a spooning place: the large spoon (individual behind) can attain round and contact the little spoon as desired. The individual in entrance can grind or wine their booty towards their associate, attain round to tug their hair, or suck on their fingers. This may also be an incredible place for penetration, with the large spoon sporting a strap-on, or just utilizing a finger or two or three. And whilst you’re at it, since your faces are so shut collectively, take into account experimenting with a little bit of scorching, breathy soiled speak.
6. Cowgirl
The traditional cowgirl place is a contender right here too! In brief, one individual lies down whereas the opposite sits on high of them. The individual on high may begin by straddling their associate and utilizing their hips to grind, thereby stimulating each companions’ vulvas concurrently. This place permits the individual on high to chill out into it, controlling the pace, strain, and depth as wanted—with the enter of the individual mendacity down, in fact! And when you’re able to reaching a number of orgasms, this simply may be the place through which to go for the gold. Different issues to strive on this place embody vaginal penetration, anal penetration utilizing butt plugs, nipple clamps, handcuffs, and kissing with reckless abandon.
7. Doggy model
Straight {couples} aren’t the one ones who can take pleasure in deep penetration, doggy-style. One associate positions themselves on all fours whereas the opposite kneels upright behind them, completely poised to penetrate the opposite with their hand or a toy (assume strap-on, vibrator, or anal vibrator). They may additionally use their different hand to succeed in round and therapeutic massage their associate’s clit. In any other case, the receiving associate can stimulate their very own clit with their fingers or a li’l vibe. Be aware: when you do not take pleasure in penetration and/otherwise you need a break from toys, this place can nonetheless be candy: simply grind towards one another with out something inserted in any respect. In any case, the clitoris does have near 8000 nerve endings—howdy.
Backside line: this record is simply the tip of the iceberg (or ought to I say the tip of the clitoris?) in relation to scorching AF girl-on-girl or vulva-on-vulva motion poses. Might you go forth and experiment till your knees shake!
One love. <3